Scribbled Thoughts

Hey y'all !!! I am back with another post. Hope you all are doing well. So, today's blog is about something that most of us would relate to, Emotional Unavailability. Life can be a bit of a roller coaster, right? Sometimes we find ourselves on the sidetracks where it gets tough to open up and let people in. We all have our reasons for being a bit guarded sometimes. There’s this invisible force around us that stops us from having a heart-to-heart conversation with others. Attempting to do so is like trying to grab smoke with nothing but our bare hands. Some of us may be really friendly and socially outgoing, but when it comes to the nitty gritty of feelings, we’re like, “ Nope, not going there. ” It’s like trying to play an emotional game of tag. We see someone reaching out to connect, but we’re so quick to dodge, trying to be a step ahead of them. “All the vulnerable stuff is off-limits.” This emotional unavailability shows up everywhere and with everyone. There’s no ...

Hey y'all!!! I am back with another post. Hope you all are enjoying 2024 so far. Now, this is my first blog for this year and I would like to start today's blog with a quote. So, here we go... “People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But they will never forget how you made them feel” — Maya Angelou I think this is one of my favorite quotes. Because when I look back, I don’t remember what my parents used to tell me when I was a child, but I remember the feeling of being loved. I don’t remember what our arguments were about, but I remember the feeling when my mom would silently walk into the room and give me a hug. I don’t remember much about all the firsts that I’ve had with my friends, but I remember the joy of being in that moment vividly. "Words, I think, come and go. They can fade away in your memory. But the emotion created in the situation stays with you for a long time." Throughout our journey in life, we all leave a diverse ...